Obesity in the Opera World

Everyone knows the opera stereotype – fat woman on stage, wearing horns and belting out Wagner – but that’s a pretty common misconception. Did you know that opera singers are – on the whole – fairly average sized? That “big girls” are the exception, not the rule?

Being a successful “big girl” in opera means one of two things: 1) you have an exceptionally phenomenal voice, or 2) you grinded your way through a whole heck of a lot of cr*p. Number one being the more prevalent of reasons. If you’re one of those girls not blessed with a phenomenal voice, you’ve discovered that you have to be twice as prepared, twice as good, act ten times better, and be the most professional person at an audition to even get considered for a part. If the average girl gets one of twenty parts, you might get one of fifty. And you still come up against people who won’t even consider you because they simply will not cast a fat person (unless it’s a man).
M is a music director in the local opera and operetta scene. He’s pretty much everywhere, and well known for refusing to cast bigger people in larger, leading roles. He prefers them young, perky and pretty. As a matter of fact, he’s infamous for casting a fourteen year old as Mabel in a Community Operetta Production of Pirates of Penzance who didn’t have the stamina or range necessary for the part (and despite there being five other sopranos who could easily sing it) because she looked the part. And – like I said – he’s EVERYWHERE.

This is what I have to contend with.

Back in college, I thought singing opera meant I didn’t have to worry about my weight. Boy, was I wrong. Every audition is a battle to prove I can transcend ideas of size and show them I can be anything I want. Every audition is an exercise in frustration when I discover that some other girl (who wasn’t as good as me) was cast because she “looked” the part. Every audition is that much more upsetting because it means another year without work or adding anything to my resume.

I’m done with exercises in futility.

I’m done with watching other girls get cast over me because some director couldn’t get his head around me playing a romantic lead.

I’m done with having to be twice as good to just get considered for a part.

It’s just one of the reasons I need to lose this weight. Music, theatre, and acting are a part of my soul. I love being on stage and singing a beautiful piece of music. I love being someone who can help people forget about the world for a few hours, and the magic that happens on stage when the lights dim. These are things I need, and if getting rid of this weight means I can keep on doing it then that’s what I going to do.

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6 Responses to Obesity in the Opera World

  1. Zan, I can only imagine the pressures you must feel (probably even above and beyond the rest of us). It seems the entertainment business is like that on every level but I still can’t imagine what people have to go through or what they put themselves through. It sounds like you have a lot of passion and heart for what you do! I admire that!

    Just think though… when you do get down to your goal weight, not only will you feel better… you’ll probably get more parts than you could have ever imagined because you had to be twice-as-good all of these years.

    Great post! I’m going to Tweet this one out! (Hope you don’t mind)



    • Tweet away!

      It’s sooo true, the entertainment industry is crazy. I’ve grown a pretty thick skin, but sometimes I need to vent the frustration. I’m just tired of being told what an amazing voice I have, how beautiful it is, then seeing nothing in return.

      But I’m on the right track to turn it all around, and can’t wait for the day that people can’t believe it’s me onstage. Until that day, I’ll just keep chugging along.

  2. Tiff says:

    I can’t even tell you how much I relate to this! All through highschool I was in competitive choir and even though I could dance and act as good as anyone else, because I wasn’t thin I would never make it into the ensemble or show choirs.

    One of the biggest reasons I am losing weight is because I don’t want to miss out on opportunities because of my weight anymore.

    Great post!

    • Thanks! I can’t count on my fingers and toes how many times I wasn’t cast because I “just didn’t look the part”.

      Like you I can’t stand missing out on those opportunities anymore, and all because of something *I* can control!

  3. shrinkingirl says:

    Wow, how frustrating that must be. I can see why you need to vent at times! It must really hurt at times and seem like no fair. Keep your chin up, you’re doing great and one day, they’re gonna regret not casting you!

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